Comments on: food safety

By: Jennifer Nicole

Jennifer Nicole — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 05:14:09 +0000

I found myself smiling and shouting “Yes!” as I read this. I’m so, so glad to hear a mother really hit this topic out of the park, because the “bad childhood” excuse has seemed like a cop-out to me for a long, long time.

My mother had a very bad childhood. It never stopped her, though, from giving her son and daughters the best childhoods she could – and by “the best she could” I mean a healthy atmosphere filled with love and support. She never used her childhood or her parents as an excuse to be a bad parent herself, or to continue a trend of unhealthy families.

I applaud you for standing up for yourself and your family. Remember that there are kids out there who had moms like you, and we love our parents. We know that what our parents chose to give us – their decision to not use their own childhood as an excuse for bad parenting – is one of the hardest and most amazing gifts they could have given.
.-= Jennifer Nicole´s last blog ..Alternatives to Urban Outfitters =-.

By: Diana

Diana — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 20:03:10 +0000

Yeah, I found that funny at IFBC that some people would look shocked and then pleased when I asked something personal rather than food or blog focused. Not deeply personal, just about their kids or something like that. I highly value relationships, and in the past few years have become an open book. I've learned that speaking openly about my hurts can often help others who are afraid to talk about it. At Words and Wine, when I asked Ruth that question that made me cry, I had 3 separate people come up to me crying afterward saying they needed to hear her answer because they were going through the same thing. I'm so sorry you're hurting, but glad you're sharing this journey so we can learn with you. Love you! Diana’s last blog post..Simplest Beets and Carrots Recipe Ever

By: Nurit - 1 family. friendly. food.

Nurit - 1 family. friendly. food. — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 22:40:29 +0000

Kat: thanks for your supprt.

Katrina: I learned what not do to , although this type of learning is more difficult because then you have to figure out what “yes” to do.

CakeSpy: “delicious tomorrow” – I like that!

Vered: I try.
Love the same on your blog and all the wonderful advice and eye opening posts you have.

By: L.

L. — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 16:43:20 +0000

Love you, honey!

By: Vered - MomGrind

Vered - MomGrind — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 03:50:09 +0000

You're obviously a wonderful mom. Every time I read one of your more personal posts, I'm so happy you are able to open up and talk about it. Vered - MomGrind’s last blog post..Truth In Advertising

By: CakeSpy

CakeSpy — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 17:24:24 +0000

Nurit, this post is really wonderful. Your ability to look at the experiences that have shaped you and look forward to a brighter (and more delicious) tomorrow...you're inspiring. CakeSpy’s last blog post..Cake Poll: Baking Vs. Eating Preferences

By: Katrina

Katrina — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 14:40:27 +0000

What a powerful post. You’ve learned a lot from your parents even though that probably was not their intention.

By: kat

kat — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 00:34:21 +0000

nurit – although i haven’t been leaving notes, i have been keeping up with your posts. and i can’t even imagine what it’s been like for you to go through all this. i know it can’t be easy to share what you share – but i do appreciate your sharing what you do chose to, the good and the not so good.

By: Nurit - 1 family. friendly. food.

Nurit - 1 family. friendly. food. — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 00:19:26 +0000

frantic foodie: of course I don’t expect to go into deep conversations with every person. I agree, that would be totally exhausting. But some people are so much focused on food that sometimes it seems absurd. Especially after 3 hours…

By: frantic foodie

frantic foodie — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 23:49:55 +0000

Nurit, you have some great points. My only comment is that there is no reason to go into depth with everyone. I choose to talk to only a few close friends. I find those deep conversations exhausting and at a dinner table, I really don’t want to go that deep. I like going out and talking about food, it’s relaxing.
Not always interested in going deep into things although since I have met you and we have a real connection. It works out for us. With others, let’s pass the bread…